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Okay so this post was originally meant to be posted last night, but I ended up waiting to see if I would calm down. Thankfully I have, but it still burns. Here lies an epic rant:
So I got a message on my fb from my brother, asking me how I felt about having a new step-mommy. Sure enough, when I checked my dad's girlfriend's page, there was a picture of them at the ceremony.
At first I was like, 'I deserve it, Gods know I didn't tell him when I got married, and then I realized that it wasn't just me that they didn't tell. They told absolutely no one, and I only know that because my brother didn't know, found out through his wife who had seen it on fb like everybody else. When she talked to them about it, they chewed her out, which was not okay. I may have my issues with my sister-in-law, but she's my sister, and no one, not even my dad and the uber-bitch can talk to her that way.
So basically, I'm debating on whether to call and chew my dad out for not even hinting it to me when we talked on the 26, or to just wash my hands of it altogether. He's still my dad, but I'm not sure if I can talk to him anytime soon.
Because he KNOWS how my brother and I feel about his... wife. We absolutely hate her. Well, I absolutely hate her because I feel like my dad's trying to replace my mom, but she's a bitch.
And the kicker of it is, my dad had just gotten on me for not calling home and keeping in touch on important things. This whole situation sucks, but at least my brother and I aren't fighting anymore.
So I got a message on my fb from my brother, asking me how I felt about having a new step-mommy. Sure enough, when I checked my dad's girlfriend's page, there was a picture of them at the ceremony.
At first I was like, 'I deserve it, Gods know I didn't tell him when I got married, and then I realized that it wasn't just me that they didn't tell. They told absolutely no one, and I only know that because my brother didn't know, found out through his wife who had seen it on fb like everybody else. When she talked to them about it, they chewed her out, which was not okay. I may have my issues with my sister-in-law, but she's my sister, and no one, not even my dad and the uber-bitch can talk to her that way.
So basically, I'm debating on whether to call and chew my dad out for not even hinting it to me when we talked on the 26, or to just wash my hands of it altogether. He's still my dad, but I'm not sure if I can talk to him anytime soon.
Because he KNOWS how my brother and I feel about his... wife. We absolutely hate her. Well, I absolutely hate her because I feel like my dad's trying to replace my mom, but she's a bitch.
And the kicker of it is, my dad had just gotten on me for not calling home and keeping in touch on important things. This whole situation sucks, but at least my brother and I aren't fighting anymore.
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*hugs like woah*
That is rather ... was he ever planning to say? I really have no words for this. At least you and your bro are getting on better :)
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I don't know what to say except that we are here for all your ranting needs darlin'.
*hugs you tightly*
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